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‘My virgin girlfriend still doesn’t want to have s3x after a year’

After more than a year, I’ve still not had sex with my partner. We’re both 21.

I’ve had a few girlfriends and love sex but she is a virgin and suffers from vaginismus and anxiety.

I’m doing my best to make it as gentle and loving for her as I can.

I make her climax without having sex, which I know she enjoys, but it’s not as fun for me.

It will bring us much closer together if we can have sex.

I’ve told her it’s likely to hurt at first but soon after it will feel OK

It is very promising that you and your girlfriend are sharing sexual pleasure if not intercourse.

Vaginismus means vaginal muscles tighten in fear and make intercourse painful. Talk to her about what has made her especially anxious so you can reassure her.

My e-leaflet Painful Sex? explains sex-help sex therapy so she gradually feels comfortable about having intercourse.

Source: the sun

Ogyem Solomon

Solomon Ogyem – Media Entrepreneur | Journalist | Brand Ambassador Solomon Ogyem is a dynamic Ghanaian journalist and media entrepreneur currently based in South Africa. With a solid foundation in journalism, Solomon is a graduate of the OTEC School of Journalism and Communication Studies in Ghana and Oxbridge Academy in South Africa. He began his career as a reporter at OTEC 102.9 MHz in Kumasi, where he honed his skills in news reporting, community storytelling, and radio broadcasting. His passion for storytelling and dedication to the media industry led him to establish Press MltiMedia Company in South Africa—a growing platform committed to authentic African narratives and multimedia journalism. Solomon is the founder and owner of Thepressradio.com, a news portal focused on delivering credible, timely, and engaging stories across Ghana and Africa. He also owns Press Global Tickets, a service-driven venture in the travel and logistics space, providing reliable ticketing services. He previously owned two notable websites—Ghanaweb.mobi and ShowbizAfrica.net—both of which contributed to entertainment and socio-political discussions within Ghana’s digital space. With a diverse background in media, digital journalism, and business, Solomon Ogyem is dedicated to telling impactful African stories, empowering youth through media, and building cross-continental media partnerships.

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