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5 things you should never do early in a relationship

The initial signs that a relationship isn’t right can be quite subtle.

When you’re just getting to know somebody

Boyfriend/girlfriend material, it can be both thrilling and stressful.

You enjoy getting to know what makes each other tick. But there’s also a great deal of uncertainty.

You worry that you’ll say something or behave in a way that leads them to believe you’re a big weirdo.

However, there are ways to minimize the risks of saying or doing something that kills the relationship before it’s really even begun.

Here are things that you should avoid doing early in the relationship.

  • Moving too quickly to plan your future together

When you make the transition from going on dates to officially becoming an item, there’s a feeling of euphoria and excitement that can’t be ignored.

They are so amazing! Hell, you even find their annoying little quirks to be endearing.

If you’ve only been together for a few weeks or even months, it is way too early to discuss moving in together. There’s no need to rush.

  • Acting too needy/clingy

It’s natural that at the beginning of a relationship, you would want to spend as much time with somebody as possible.

The feeling is probably mutual, but don’t allow yourself to feel jealous or resentful.

As your relationship grows, they will be more willing to integrate you into their broader social life, including getting to know their closest friends.

It’s important that you both continue to have lives outside of your relationship.

  • Comparing them to your exes

If you’re telling your boyfriend/girlfriend how they’re measuring up vs previous partners, you’re sending two really bad messages.

First, it conveys to them that you might not be over your ex, especially if you’re discussing them in a positive light.

Second, it puts unnecessary pressure on them to meet whatever expectations you have for them, even if you think you’re complimenting them for being so much better than Jake or Jennifer ever was.

  • Ignoring the immediate red flags

While you certainly can’t expect a partner to be perfect in every way, there is also a risk of overlooking all of their negative qualities either in hopes that they will change over time or, because you find them so physically appealing, you’re trying to convince yourself that these character flaws are no big deal.

If you notice that they have traits that would be difficult to contend with — there’s a very good chance that the relationship won’t last.

  • Loaning out money to them

If you’ve only been dating for a little while and he/she starts asking you to lend them money, it doesn’t bode well for the future of the relationship.

For starters, it is a surefire indication that they aren’t very good with their finances.

Second, it sends a message that they take you for granted, which is not a good thing when your relationship is just getting off the ground

Ogyem Solomon

Solomon Ogyem – Media Entrepreneur | Journalist | Brand Ambassador Solomon Ogyem is a dynamic Ghanaian journalist and media entrepreneur currently based in South Africa. With a solid foundation in journalism, Solomon is a graduate of the OTEC School of Journalism and Communication Studies in Ghana and Oxbridge Academy in South Africa. He began his career as a reporter at OTEC 102.9 MHz in Kumasi, where he honed his skills in news reporting, community storytelling, and radio broadcasting. His passion for storytelling and dedication to the media industry led him to establish Press MltiMedia Company in South Africa—a growing platform committed to authentic African narratives and multimedia journalism. Solomon is the founder and owner of Thepressradio.com, a news portal focused on delivering credible, timely, and engaging stories across Ghana and Africa. He also owns Press Global Tickets, a service-driven venture in the travel and logistics space, providing reliable ticketing services. He previously owned two notable websites—Ghanaweb.mobi and ShowbizAfrica.net—both of which contributed to entertainment and socio-political discussions within Ghana’s digital space. With a diverse background in media, digital journalism, and business, Solomon Ogyem is dedicated to telling impactful African stories, empowering youth through media, and building cross-continental media partnerships.

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